Living with Eagle is an online patient support community that is powered by BensFriends.org, a network of patient support communities for rare diseases. Our mission at Ben’s Friends is to ensure that patients living with rare diseases or chronic illnesses, as well as their caregivers, family, and friends, have a safe and supportive place to connect with others like them.
Eagle Syndrome is elongation of the styloid process which is actually calcification of the stylohyoid ligament. The s-h ligament runs from the tip of the styloid processes to the lesser horns of the hyoid bone. The hyoid bone also has two greater horns. Hyoid bone syndrome arises from the greater horns becoming elongated or thickening such that the hyoid bone loses some of it’s movement & begins to press on some of the same nerves that elongated styloid and / or calcified s-h ligaments irritate.
The hyoid bone can also become “tethered” by calcified stylohyoid ligaments. Under normal conditions it moves freely up and down and a little side to side when we swallow, talk, laugh, cough, sneeze, breathe, etc. When it loses the ability to move as it needs to, pain results.
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Latest Discussions
- Hi There. 3D images not super sharpby Ifrit on February 20, 2025
I’m in the process of scheduling a remote consultation with Dr. Constantino. I ran my CTa from a few weeks ago through Radi Ant, but I don’t think it has the data it needs to make a really good picture. Using the Angio filter, I can hardly see my styloids at all. The right side is the most painful, and it’s largely obscured by veins and arteries. The Bones and Skin 3 filter is the only one […]
- Prep for post op TORSby Krisnz on February 18, 2025
Hi all, I’ve been a lurker for a while and just freshly joined recently. So glad Google found this for me!!! I’m signed up for my op at the end of the month. My surgeon (in New Zealand) is Dr Naveed Basheeth and he’s approaching it transoral robotics… seems he gets people from all around the country referred to him (he also treats surgery and anything ENT) … I’ve read heaps of pros […]
- Old ES case, still have symptoms, considering revision surgery?by GeeEmOh on February 17, 2025
Hi all, I’m looking for some guidance and have a long history with Eagle’s. I was diagnosed in 2017 via CT, after two years of unexplained symptoms, primarily a constant bilateral “poking” behind my palatine tonsils. It feels like two tusks pushing against the sides of my tongue, with significant muscle tension and occasional dysphonia as a result. Before surgery, I also had occasional […]
- New user and unsure of how to proceedby byebyetwenties on February 17, 2025
Hello all! I am very much unsure if this is the right place for me. I am also pretty desperate at this point. Whether or not I have ES is very much up for debate. But, I’ve had most other common conditions that it could be ruled out over the past 10 years; with my GP now wanting to diagnose me with CFS/ME (which as we all know is a diagnosis of exclusion) and doesn’t make sense considering […]
- Charging symptoms and reassurance neededby Adele007 on February 17, 2025
Hi Everyone Im waiting for surgery its on the 28th but in this past couple of days iv gotten alot worse and the clicking and clacking have turned to thuds every time i swollow, im getting alot of calcification coming out from my mouth ehivh im spitting out every 30 seconds and im finding it hard to swollowing and can feel with in my body the styloild going up and down my neck everytime i swollow, […]
- Operación Eagle en Españaby Wilow on February 16, 2025
Hola, me gustaría conocer si alguien se ha operado en España. Qué doctor lo ha operado y si ha notado mejoría.Tambien me han hablado de un cirujano en Polonia.Alguien que me pueda decir algo? Gracias Translation: Hello, I would like to know if anyone has had surgery in Spain. Which doctor has operated on them and if they have noticed any improvement. I have also heard of a surgeon in Poland. […]
- New Member, Here’s my story and were I’m atby Disabled_Inventor on February 16, 2025
Hi All, Not really sure where to start writing this but really glad I found this forum. This is a long post because its my first and don’t really have anyone to talk to about what I’m going through, and I’ve spent some time reading posts and seems there are alot of well educated and kind people here. I am just going to lay out my situation, I wish there was a TLDR I have struggled with […]
- Questions about carotid sheathby ClearSky on February 14, 2025
Hello all, I had a few questions about the carotid sheath that are probably going to seem a bit ridiculous – I’m still learning, so apologies in advance! From my understanding, ES/VES can be caused by the styloid process or a hardened stylohyoid ligament pressing down on structures within the neck. This can include the jugular vein, carodid artery and the vagus nerve. I’ve read that the […]
- Not sure what surgery to opt forby Lemontree on February 13, 2025
Hi, Hope everyone is going well. I’m getting surgery on my left side in around 4-6 months. He’s not allowed to use the TORS robot this time around (I had right out intra oral last year by Tom Milner in Glasgow) – so I have a choice for what surgery to go for, I can’t remember what’s best, I’m sure I read about this before. I’m nervous he’s now not using the robot lol! I’ve also […]
- ES Story, bilateral, IJV Compressionby TomTomson on February 13, 2025
Hello, after suffering for roughly 20 years from this insanity I finally got a diagnosis and had surgery last week. I’ll share my story and can also give additional updates and information if anyone is interested. Symptoms: -strange feelings in my upper neck and head area, constant pressure, pain and feeling squeezed inside my head and other really unpleasant feelings -constant dizziness, the […]